Author: John Holden

  • What are the Beautiful Red Berries by the Road?

    What are the Beautiful Red Berries by the Road?

    As I drove down the road this week I spotted the most beautiful red berries.  They caught the morning sun and lit up the bare Fall landscape.

    The shrub was winterberry holly (Ilex verticillata).  It has bright red berries in the Fall and early Winter that are about 3/8″ in diameter.

    Winterberry holly is a deciduous shrub.  You usually see it growing along the edge of a swamp or stream in the wild.  If you are going to plant winterberry holly in your landscape plant it in the dry soil next to the stream or swamp, not in the stream or swamp.

    Winterberry holly grows six to ten feet tall depending on the light.  There is a lot of variation in fruit set between.

    Ilex verticillata Winterberry Holly
    Gorgeous!
    Winterberry Holly Ilex verticillata
    This group of winterberry holly is on the edge of a wetland.

    I often plant winterberry holly in woodland plantings because it is a native shrub and very easy to grow.

    If you’re looking for a reliable and easy to grow shrub that provides winter interest give winterberry holly (Ilex verticillata) a try.

    By John Holden

  • Tips for a Low Stress and Peaceful Life

    Tips for a Low Stress and Peaceful Life

    I wrote the list a while ago.  I hope you’ll take a moment to read it and add your own tips in the comments below.

    1. Live in the moment.
    2. We are on a continuum.  It’s not yes or no, up or down, good or bad.  Every day varies.
    3. Nobody is perfect and that’s ok.
    4. Exercise.  Some exercise is always better than none.
    5. Focus on the positive, let the negative go.
    6. Stop multitasking.  Get one thing done well not three things poorly.
    7. Just say no.  You can’t do everything.
    8. If you don’t like something say so.
    9. Spend time with the right people who lift your spirits and accept you the way you are.
    10. Take everything people say to you is a compliment.
    11. It’s ok to make mistakes.  That’s how we learn.
    12. When having a bad day think of good things.
    13. Admit you need help or don’t know the answer, even if only to yourself.
    14. You don’t have to know everything.
    15. Bad things never happen at good times.
    16. We don’t have to correct everyone.  Do we correct others to help them or feel better about ourselves?
    17. Get up at the same time every day.
    18. You define who you are, not your job or how much money you have.
    19. If someone wants to ruffle your feathers say, “No thank you.” and walk away.
    20. It’s better to know than to avoid.  If there is a problem seek a solution.
    21. We are all different and that’s ok.
    22. When distracted by negative thoughts distract yourself.  Count windows or bricks on a wall, do something physical or go to a movie.
    23. We can always learn something.
    24. Never brag.
    25. Where you found happiness as a child is where you will find happiness as an adult.

    By John Holden

  • Lessons Our Pets Teach Us

    Lessons Our Pets Teach Us

    The kitty on the left is Spice.  Spice is the mother of Sugar on right.  All Spice wanted was a warm lap.  The day we went to the shelter to choose our kitties Spice was shy.  When I rubbed her chin she leaned into it and I knew she was the kitty for me.

    Sugar grew up on the streets of Waterbury with Spice.  Sugar and Spice were abandoned.   Sugar was 5 to 6 months old when we brought her home.  Sugar wasn’t socialized as a kitten.  With Sugar’s temperament I don’t think it wouldn’t have made much of a difference.  Sugar sees people as a source of food and warmth.

    Sugar is growing affectionate as she matures.  When I’m working in my office she meows at me even though there’s food in her bowl.  If I give her a few pets the purring starts.

    Sugar has bonded with Madison, our high-strung, though calming as she matures, collie.  I often see them laying one or two feet apart with sugar copying Madison.  Madison never moves into Sugar’s space for fear of ‘The claw.’  Sugar freely move into Madison’s space.

    cat sleeping on dog

    Both of our children have suffered from ‘The claw’ because they didn’t listen to Sugar.  If you ask what noise a cat makes my children will make a hissing noise.  Sugar is the reason neither of my children want a cat for a pet.  I plan on getting a fluffy and affectionate kitten for my children, and myself, when the time is right.

    I have taught my children to rub their fingers together and let Sugar come to them, not to walk up to Sugar and start petting her.  Sugar is ok with about 5-8 strokes on her terms before you get a gentle reminder that she is in control, not you.

    Some people might think a cat-like that is a bad thing to have in the house.  I disagree.

    Sugar shows incredible restraint.  When she strikes she does the least necessary to get the point across.  No more, no less.

    Cat in sun
    If either of my children did not listen to Sugar I would have to find her a new home because she could injure one of them.  Sugar has taught my children to respect animals.

    Sugar the Cat and Theo the Great Pyrenees Dog
    We lost Madison our Collie about a year and a half ago. We now have a Great Pyrenees puppy named Theo. Sugar has dealt with the situation very well.

    CATS RULE!

    By John Holden

  • What Arsenio Hall Taught Me

    In the early 90’s The Arsenio Hall Show was on TV.  It was a carbon copy of every late show since Johnny Carson except Arsenio sat on an arm chair, not behind a desk, while interviewing his guests.  Part of Arsenio’s audience, called the “Dog Pound” was given a funny title every night such as “People who are experiencing déjà vou for the first time.”

    I was in my early 20’s and I watched the show because I like Arsenio’s style.  Arsenio is a warm and friendly man.  He respected his guests and if they didn’t want to talk about a subject he wouldn’t push it.

    One of the best pieces of advice I ever received came from the Arsenio Hall show.

    One night Arsenio was interviewing a guest and they talked about what his guest did for a living. Arsenio’s guest explained how he loved his job and got up every day eager to go to work because it was his passion.  You could hear the conviction in the man’s voice and see it in his posture.

    That moment must have affected me because I still remember it twenty years later.

    Life is that simple.

    Are you eager to go to work tomorrow?

    By John Holden

  • A Berm for Curb Appeal

    A Berm for Curb Appeal

    Here are some great landscaping ideas for your front yard featuring a berm planted to give curb appeal to a lovely colonial.  A fieldstone wall compliments the colorful plantings.

    By John Holden

  • How to Renovate a Lawn

    How to Renovate a Lawn

    In this video I show you how to renovate a lawn using a tool called a Rotodairon.

    If your lawn is not growing well look at the big picture to see what is causing the trouble.

    Some, of the many, causes of a poor lawn are:

    • Sandy soil
    • Too much shade
    • Soil has a low ph
    • Soil has a high ph
    • Low organic matter content
    • Buried debris under the soil
    • Too damp of an area
    • Too dry of an area
    • Mowing too short
    • Too many tree roots (Please don’t cut them all, there’s a better solution.)

    The key is to look around and figure out why your lawn isn’t growing well and don’t make assumptions.  This is a situation where like Joe Friday says you have to look at, “Just the facts.”

    If you have any questions about lawn renovation please post them below.

    By John Holden

  • Front Yard Landscaping Ideas by a Trumbull CT Landscaper

    Front Yard Landscaping Ideas by a Trumbull CT Landscaper

    I installed this front yard landscaping over 9 years ago and been involved in the maintenance ever since.

    I hope you can learn a few tips when it comes time to design your own landscape. If you are looking for a Trumbull CT landscaper or landscape designer please call today.

  • How to Prune a Tree Hydrangea – Part 3

    How to Prune a Tree Hydrangea – Part 3

    In the last video in my series on How to Prune Tree Hydrangeas I show you the results of our effort.  A tree hydrandgea full of flowers.

    This winter I hope you will get out and try pruning your tree hydrangea.  I know you can do it!

    By John Holden

  • How to Prune a Tree Hydrangea – Part 2

    How to Prune a Tree Hydrangea – Part 2

    Over the winter I showed you how to prune a tree hydrangea (Hydrangea paniculata).  In this video I show you the new growth emerging on the same shrub.  I hope this video gives you the confidence to try pruning your tree hydrangea.

    By John Holden